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Behind the Wire

  The first time I went to prison, I was more curious than afraid. Once corrections officers had ensured I wasn’t carrying anything on my person, I stayed in a holding area with others packed in like sardines, waiting for the all clear. No two doors were open at the same time. It was a slow and methodical process that reminded me of going through river locks as a child with my grandpa. Most prisoners are held in cells individually or in large pods, depending on the prison, but usually gen pop don’t just roam the halls freely. It is kind of like high school in that way.  There are a few trustees with special permissions or hall passes to go from one location to another to complete work duties. Oftentimes, any position other than corrections officer, or CO, is filled with prisoners, primarily to keep costs down. These positions are earned through good behavior and sought after to break up the monotony and boredom of a regular inmate’s prison day. When first entering the halls of...

What I Have Learned Thus Far

  I’ve lived 45 years on this earth, and this is what I have learned thus far: Buckle up buttercup. Reality is nothing like you imagined it to be. Life is full of disappointments.  According to Webster, disappointment is the “failure to meet expectations.” I’m sorry to break it to you, but your life will most likely not look anything like your childhood hopes and dreams. Your happiness can fluctuate depending on how much disappointment you experience and how much you experience at one time. Once you discover the real secret to happiness is to not have any expectations, your journey in life becomes learning how to tamp down expectations and just enjoy moments as they happen, grateful for opportunities that come your way, allowing room in your life for them to happen. We all have these plans of the career we want one day, to be important, make lots of money, start a family, have a great circle of friends, and all the stuff we need or want to make us happy. Then life happens, and...